Time-out With Cathy

It's Father's day today!... there have been talks on how Fathers' are not celebrated as much. The jealousy could be perceived from a thousand miles away!. 😂😂😂 I also realized I have a post for Mothers' on Mother's day but none for Fathers'. So, I have decided to change that narrative.  Everyone who knows me personally can tell I am closer to my mum. Lol ... but what they don't know is, my Dad was my first best friend and I was his person 🤭 As a matter of fact, I used to see my mum as TOO strict especially when she was helping with my assignments😏 or asking me to stay indoor instead of going outside to play with my friends😭 It wasn't funny because I was the only child at the time before my sister decided it was time to show-up😏 My dad's return from work always felt like an 'escape' for me. The excitement I'd get when I hear his footsteps was like magic... you could literally see my face light up, the way I would jump at him and how ...

Have you ever been in a situation where it feels like there is a battle between your mind and the voices in your head?. It's like a supremacy battle. However, you want to be careful to follow the right voice, lest, you may stumble. You know that moment when you really want some 'quiet' inorder to take that next step... you can hear the voices in your head screaming in support of what it is beckoning you to do but the mind says otherwise and you wonder why can't these two agree! Why do they have a mind of their own?.  You say to yourself " I am in charge " to the point that you now totally believe you truly are but are you truly in charge?. You actually look helpless😏 In a way to caress your ego into believing you are indeed in control, you run straight to your arsenal (forgetting to say hello to the one who is in charge of that arsenal). You pick up all the necessary weapon you figure you might need for your show of power. The funny thing is, now you have the...